Married men lie to their girlfriends, NOT just their wives. The girlfriend knows the married man is lying to his wife, but wants to believe he wouldn’t lie to her, since they are (partners in crime). Really he is lying to everyone: kids, family, work, friends, and YOU.

The truth is if he swallowed his tongue one-inch every time he lied, it would be hanging twenty-five miles out his ass.

What a man likes and what he can life with are two completely different stories. Every time a man says the word "you" he is giving you a post hypnotic suggestion. Just because he is poring in "your hot" now, doesn’t mean he mixes the same drink when he’s married.

If he says he is living with a "bitch" & cold woman it is because it works for him & gives him an excuse to screw around. There is a large group of men who like to have a wife at home and a girlfriend on the side it keeps the ball rolling at home. They aren’t in love with her or you. They are in love themselves. You need to listen to what he is doing NOT what he is saying.

Married men / girlfriend relationships are masochistic / sadistic. Pleasure when you see them, pain when you’re apart. Very addictive. At first it is two hour of pleasure for five minutes of pain. Gradually it is hours of pain for minutes of pleasure. Poring milk and honey in a bucket with twenty-five holes leaves you empty. Lots of room for someone to dumb their garbage in. Fill yourself up with I deserve love, marriage, devotion, loyalty and more.

As a hypnotherapist I saw thousands of men with the wife at home and screwing around on the side. I took ten years off to live my own life. When I came back and put my ad in the paper the same men were answering my ad.

You aren’t helping his ethics by screwing a married man and you’re definitely losing your own. His wife is you. Only farther down the road.