You can have E.S.P. and a magnetic attraction with a man and that does not mean he is your soul mate. It may be a past life connection, someone that you hurt in a past life and they are back to drive you nuts in this one. Same magnetic attraction-different results.

A bad past life connection comes with a problem - a married man, a cheater, a drinker, a drug problem, a liar, a crook, etc. etc. You can have a feeling of being compelled to do things or put up with things you never thought of doing before to try and please them. The real test in this is for you NOT to join them even though you are tempted to. It can be very self-destructive to be with them. Looking for them to improve is like standing in quick sand. The longer you wait, the deeper you get.

A soul mate is ethical, kind and wants to be with you and loves you. It is natural for them to make a commitment and be devoted to you. Being with them is comfortable and without a lot complications.

If you are having to strain to get someone or keep someone, rethink your opinion that they are your “SOUL MATE”. That thought makes you believe you have to put up with them and the real truth is you need to move away very quickly. Believing God made you an uncooperative and unethical soul mate is like believing in a very bad Santa Clause. Don’t be afraid to see a past life connection for what it is. Some thing to pass on.